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Unfaithful Men: Why Unfaithful Men Fall for the Fantasy of Infidelity April 21, 2009

Unfaithful Men Infidelity

Unfaithful Men Infidelity

Some men are unfaithful because they crave intimacy and cannot find it. Others simply lack self-control, ethics and good sense. Ironically, many men tend to use sex as a getaway route from their problems. Unless men can learn to communicate their needs verbally, instead of sexually, the charge of infidelity, which causes about 20 percent of marriage breakdowns, seems likely to continue according to recent findings from the website morphogenesis.

Selfishness is also another very big indicator of the level of devotion of a man. A selfish person does not care about the feeling of others and that behavior is displayed in an unfaithful situation.  Selfish behavior stems back from early adolescent days, when selfishness is thought be developed.

Unfaithful men cover all demographics, nationalities and incomes.  We can take the examples of some celebrity males who have been unfaithful to their partners such as Hugh Grant who cheated on Elizabeth Hurley, Eric Benet who cheated multiple times with multiple partners on Halle Berry and Tommy Lee who was notorious for cheating on Heather Locklear. (more…)

 

Cheating and Infidelity Statistics: Are Men Cheating More Than Women?

Cheating Infidelity Statistics

Cheating Infidelity Statistics

Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship. Do these infidelity statistics seem a bit startling? What these findings suggest is that approximately one half of all married men and women do seek intimacy outside of their committed relationships. But what does this really mean and why are the number of men and women having extramarital affairs so high?

This may come as a complete surprise, but most extramarital affairs are not about sex. What then, is the main factor that causes infidelity? One should pay attention to the reason most people find intimacy with someone outside of their marriage is because of their emotional needs are not being met. Yes, it is true in most cases of infidelity and about wanting to feel emotionally connected to someone. (more…)

 

Cheaters: Men Cheaters and the Women They Cheat With

Cheaters

Cheaters

Men cheaters cheat with women they have access to.  Surprisingly, many male cheaters are not very picky with the women they cheat with, frequently cheating with women that are way below status than their current partner in looks and intelligence.  Sometimes men cheat simply because they have the opportunity. Cheating is typically done by three types of men: those with low self esteem, those who are unhappy at home and those who are afraid of commitment and are seeking ‘fun love’. According to the statistics on cheating spouses, 50 to 70% of married men (between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives. One recent study found that two-thirds of the wives (26 to 36 million women) whose husbands were cheating had no idea their husbands were having an affair – largely because they failed to recognize their cheating signs. (more…)

 

Affairs: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Have Affairs

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Affair Reasons

Affair Reasons

There are many different kinds of reasons for men to have affairs. Forces such as sexual attraction, companionship, excitement and curiosity can pull men toward affairs. Affairs are often glamorized in movies, romance novels, soap operas, and TV shows. Public disclosure of public figures having affairs is headline news because people are fascinated and titillated by hearing about others’ affairs. Men are bombarded with images of women as sex objects in advertising and marketing campaigns. Over and over, the message to men is that the good life includes a procession of sexy women in their lives. Women inadvertently buy into this image and struggle to achieve it. The lack of good sex education and the existence of sexual taboos combine to make it difficult to talk honestly about sex. (more…)

 

Adultery: Why Men are Prone to Adultery

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Adultery Men

Adultery Men

 

 

Adultery is only a joke for those who are not devastated by it.  The assumption for thousands of years has been that men are more prone towards adultery due to their genes and their need to spread their seed for continued survival.  This may have been true at the beginning of time, but in our over-populated world, have we not evolved enough for our minds to control our behavior? Men may also be more prone to adultery because many men find it easier to separate sex from love than women do.  In addition, men may have more power and money so women may put up with adultery because they feel responsible to take care of the children and thus, feel trapped.

Main shifts in the power balance in marriage have altered adultery. (more…)