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Cheating and Infidelity Statistics: Are Men Cheating More Than Women? April 21, 2009

Cheating Infidelity Statistics

Cheating Infidelity Statistics

Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship. Do these infidelity statistics seem a bit startling? What these findings suggest is that approximately one half of all married men and women do seek intimacy outside of their committed relationships. But what does this really mean and why are the number of men and women having extramarital affairs so high?

This may come as a complete surprise, but most extramarital affairs are not about sex. What then, is the main factor that causes infidelity? One should pay attention to the reason most people find intimacy with someone outside of their marriage is because of their emotional needs are not being met. Yes, it is true in most cases of infidelity and about wanting to feel emotionally connected to someone. (more…)


Catch a Cheater: Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Man

Catch A Cheater

Catch A Cheater

According to a poll of over 1,100 women conducted by, over 62% of women said they think men cheat more than women.  With infidelity on the rise, we have sorted out the top 10 ways on how to catch a cheating man without hiring a costly detective.   Give your suspect plenty of room to make errors and make sure that you do not ever accuse him unless you have proof that could be used in court if necessary.

1.  Set a trap.  99.9% of the time cheating men will cheat when their partner is out of town or when the cheater is traveling.  Tell your partner you are leaving for the weekend and then wait and watch.  If he doesn’t come home all night, he could be at another woman’s house or at a hotel.  (more…)


Infidelity Advice from Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander February 6, 2009

It's important to understand that men and women generally cheat for different reasons.

Men and women cheat for different reasons.

Know one likes to be cheated on and yet so many of us have been there before. The average adult woman has been cheated on at least once by a current or former partner. That’s a pretty astounding statistic when you really think about it. Many women blame themselves when they are cheated on. They may feel that there is something they did to turn him away or something that did not do right. The truth of the matter is that your partner cheating has little to do with you and more to do with him. You cannot blame yourself for his poor judgment. (more…)


Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander – Should You Spy on Your Partner?

Should you spy on your partner?

Should you spy on your partner?

As an infidelity expert who has given infidelity advice to thousands of people since early 2000, spying on your partner can be tricky and risky business.  The question is whether spying on your partner is moral.  The answer is it depends on the situation.  Some people think that spying is always morally wrong no matter what the circumstances.  Others believe that knowing the truth is the most important thing.

Most people seem to agree that spying on your partner without their knowledge without having just cause is wrong.  However, is it always wrong to spy if your partner has given you indication of infidelity?  Most people suggest open communication if they suspect infidelity but many times the cheating partner will lie about being unfaithful and cover their tracks better.  Unless you have concrete, factual proof of the infidelity, cheaters often deny any wrongdoings. (more…)


Celebrity Infidelity

Not even celebrities are free of cheating and infidelity.
Not even celebrities are free of cheating and infidelity.

Christie Brinkley, supermodel, reportedly split from her husband of almost 10 years, Peter Cook in 2006 after he allegedly had an affair with his teenage personal assistant. It just goes to show you that even a supermodel can feel the pain of infidelity. Uma Thurman and Ethan Hawke split after news of Ethan’s affair. President Bill Clinton cheated on his wife Hilary with Monica Lewinsky. Not even celebrities or the leader of our country are free of cheating and infidelity.
While they may be rich and famous, on the inside they are people just like the rest of us and the reasons they cheat are most like the reasons that ordinary people admit to cheating and infidelity. Here are some reasons for celebrity infidelity.