Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander

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Surviving Infidelity: Advice on How to Survive Infidelity April 21, 2009

Surviving Infidelity

Surviving Infidelity

Life certainly has its challenges, but little compares to the enormous task of healing from infidelity. Many marriage therapists have well confirmed that the clients who visit them have confessed that the discovery of an affair was the lowest, darkest moment of their entire lives. And because affairs shatter the general trust, many people seriously contemplate ending their marriages.  However, it is important to know that, no matter bleak things might seem, it is possible to revitalize a marriage wounded by infidelity. It is not so easy: there are no quick fix, one-size-fits-all solutions. But years of experience has taught that there are definite patterns to what people in loving relationships do to bring their marriages back from the brink of disaster.

Surviving infidelity involves teamwork; both spouses should be fully committed to the hard work of getting their marriages back on track. The unfaithful partner must be willing to end the affair and do (more…)

 

Infidelity Advice from Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander February 6, 2009

It's important to understand that men and women generally cheat for different reasons.

Men and women cheat for different reasons.

Know one likes to be cheated on and yet so many of us have been there before. The average adult woman has been cheated on at least once by a current or former partner. That’s a pretty astounding statistic when you really think about it. Many women blame themselves when they are cheated on. They may feel that there is something they did to turn him away or something that did not do right. The truth of the matter is that your partner cheating has little to do with you and more to do with him. You cannot blame yourself for his poor judgment. (more…)