Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander

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Cheaters: Men Cheaters and the Women They Cheat With April 21, 2009



Men cheaters cheat with women they have access to.  Surprisingly, many male cheaters are not very picky with the women they cheat with, frequently cheating with women that are way below status than their current partner in looks and intelligence.  Sometimes men cheat simply because they have the opportunity. Cheating is typically done by three types of men: those with low self esteem, those who are unhappy at home and those who are afraid of commitment and are seeking ‘fun love’. According to the statistics on cheating spouses, 50 to 70% of married men (between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives. One recent study found that two-thirds of the wives (26 to 36 million women) whose husbands were cheating had no idea their husbands were having an affair – largely because they failed to recognize their cheating signs. (more…)


Cheater Websites: Are Websites that Promote Infidelity Wrong?

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Cheater Websites

Cheater Websites

Cheater websites have become commonplace on the Internet.  Websites such as ashleymadison and meet2cheat specialize in promoting discrete affairs between married and committed people.  Make sure your partner is not frequenting these sites by checking their computer history. Also, watch for escort sites such as theeroticreview or bigdoggie to find out whether your husband or boyfriend is paying for prostitutes, perhaps endangering your health.  Studies which were conducted recently revealed that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship (Atwood & Schwartz,2002 – Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy).

According to a poll of over 1,900 women conducted by, 39% felt that alibinetwork was the sleaziest website on the net, (more…)


Catch a Cheater: Top 10 Ways on How to Catch a Cheating Man

Catch A Cheater

Catch A Cheater

According to a poll of over 1,100 women conducted by, over 62% of women said they think men cheat more than women.  With infidelity on the rise, we have sorted out the top 10 ways on how to catch a cheating man without hiring a costly detective.   Give your suspect plenty of room to make errors and make sure that you do not ever accuse him unless you have proof that could be used in court if necessary.

1.  Set a trap.  99.9% of the time cheating men will cheat when their partner is out of town or when the cheater is traveling.  Tell your partner you are leaving for the weekend and then wait and watch.  If he doesn’t come home all night, he could be at another woman’s house or at a hotel.  (more…)


Affairs: Top 10 Reasons Why Men Have Affairs

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Affair Reasons

Affair Reasons

There are many different kinds of reasons for men to have affairs. Forces such as sexual attraction, companionship, excitement and curiosity can pull men toward affairs. Affairs are often glamorized in movies, romance novels, soap operas, and TV shows. Public disclosure of public figures having affairs is headline news because people are fascinated and titillated by hearing about others’ affairs. Men are bombarded with images of women as sex objects in advertising and marketing campaigns. Over and over, the message to men is that the good life includes a procession of sexy women in their lives. Women inadvertently buy into this image and struggle to achieve it. The lack of good sex education and the existence of sexual taboos combine to make it difficult to talk honestly about sex. (more…)


Affair: Best Ways to Break Off an Affair



Most people at some point of time have been in relationship when they meet someone who looks like they would be “better” partner. However, marriage includes the expectation of primariness: the assurance of both partners to keeping each other the most important person in their life. Usually couples agree that primariness will include the expectation in which partners promise to have sexual relations with each other only.

Rather than being upset when you see someone who looks more appropriate to you, it is typically a sign that you need to pay more attention to your current relationship. As well, it is likely you or your partner is at a change phase in your relationship. For example, a new job, birth of a child, children launched, or return to school. Affairs are most likely to happen only during these phases in a couple’s life cycle. (more…)


Adultery: Why Men are Prone to Adultery

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Adultery Men

Adultery Men



Adultery is only a joke for those who are not devastated by it.  The assumption for thousands of years has been that men are more prone towards adultery due to their genes and their need to spread their seed for continued survival.  This may have been true at the beginning of time, but in our over-populated world, have we not evolved enough for our minds to control our behavior? Men may also be more prone to adultery because many men find it easier to separate sex from love than women do.  In addition, men may have more power and money so women may put up with adultery because they feel responsible to take care of the children and thus, feel trapped.

Main shifts in the power balance in marriage have altered adultery. (more…)


Adultery and Alcoholism: How Alcoholism Promotes Adultery

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Adultery and Alcoholism: How Alcoholism Promotes Adultery

Adultery and Alcoholism

Adultery and Alcoholism are the ostensible major causes of divorce.  The worldwide increase in divorce is impacting children, the financial status of women, the marriage rate, and the labor force as well. Adultery and Alcoholism go together like bread and butter. When an alcoholic drinks their mind becomes different in how it feels and thinks. The alcoholic mind blurs out personal ethics and values and only cares about feeding its pleasures and desires. It’s true; alcohol makes people selfish. After a heavy night of drinking, the alcoholic becomes sober and has to deal with the consequences of their addiction. It is hard to face yourself or your partner after a night of sexual promiscuity.  Alcoholics rarely take the time to use sexual protection and thus further, risk their health by exposing themselves to sexually transmitted diseases.  After a drinking binge, anxiety and guilt set in and the alcoholic needs to have another drink. It is the emotional part of the addiction and psychologically that is why they drink again.

Alcohol can be a deadly and dangerous substance for an alcoholic, who frequently exhibit an addictive personality. (more…)