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Infidelity Advice from Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander February 6, 2009

It's important to understand that men and women generally cheat for different reasons.

Men and women cheat for different reasons.

Know one likes to be cheated on and yet so many of us have been there before. The average adult woman has been cheated on at least once by a current or former partner. That’s a pretty astounding statistic when you really think about it. Many women blame themselves when they are cheated on. They may feel that there is something they did to turn him away or something that did not do right. The truth of the matter is that your partner cheating has little to do with you and more to do with him. You cannot blame yourself for his poor judgment. (more…)


10 Tips to Infidelity-Proof Your Relationship

Infidelity proof your relationship.

Infidelity proof your relationship.

Infidelity can sneak up on even the most solid partnerships.  According to an infidelity poll conducted by of 6,330 women, 92% believe that emotional affairs lead to physical affairs, whereas only a mere 7% believe they do not..* Source: With the increase in technology, cheating has become more prevalent.  However, the following the below top 10 infidelity-proof tips will increase your chances of having a long-lasting, healthy, monogamous relationship. (more…)


Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander – Should You Spy on Your Partner?

Should you spy on your partner?

Should you spy on your partner?

As an infidelity expert who has given infidelity advice to thousands of people since early 2000, spying on your partner can be tricky and risky business.  The question is whether spying on your partner is moral.  The answer is it depends on the situation.  Some people think that spying is always morally wrong no matter what the circumstances.  Others believe that knowing the truth is the most important thing.

Most people seem to agree that spying on your partner without their knowledge without having just cause is wrong.  However, is it always wrong to spy if your partner has given you indication of infidelity?  Most people suggest open communication if they suspect infidelity but many times the cheating partner will lie about being unfaithful and cover their tracks better.  Unless you have concrete, factual proof of the infidelity, cheaters often deny any wrongdoings. (more…)


Celebrity Infidelity

Not even celebrities are free of cheating and infidelity.
Not even celebrities are free of cheating and infidelity.

Christie Brinkley, supermodel, reportedly split from her husband of almost 10 years, Peter Cook in 2006 after he allegedly had an affair with his teenage personal assistant. It just goes to show you that even a supermodel can feel the pain of infidelity. Uma Thurman and Ethan Hawke split after news of Ethan’s affair. President Bill Clinton cheated on his wife Hilary with Monica Lewinsky. Not even celebrities or the leader of our country are free of cheating and infidelity.
While they may be rich and famous, on the inside they are people just like the rest of us and the reasons they cheat are most like the reasons that ordinary people admit to cheating and infidelity. Here are some reasons for celebrity infidelity.



10 Reasons Not to Date a Married Man

Are you in a relationship with a married man?

Are you in a relationship with a married man?

Are you in a relationship with a married man or thinking of starting one? Before you take that step and become involved with a married man, there are many things you need to know.  Dating a married man can seem thrilling or exciting at first but it most always ends in heartache and regret.

Here are the top 10 reasons not to date a married man:

1. If he is cheating on his wife, what guarantee do you have that he will not cheat on you as well?
2. You are helping to break up a marriage, whether you want to admit it or not. Think about how you would feel if it were the other way around? The guilt of such a relationship can eventually catch up to you. (more…)