Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander

Infidelity Expert Advice and Articles

Infidelity Expert Stephany Alexander February 17, 2010

“Dedicated to outing the bad apples.”
New York Times

“This could protect my daughter.”
First Lady Maria Shriver

“Reviews your potential mate like Zagats critiques a restaurant.”
Esquire Magazine

“I’ve got a guy I can put in there.”
Celebrity Kim Kardashian

“This has the potential to change men’s behavior.”
Patrick Byrne, Founder, Overstock.com

Stephany Alexander, B.A. Communications, B.A. German
aka “Little Miss WomanSaver”

Relationship and Infidelity Expert, Women’s Speaker, CEO/Founder of WomanSavers.com (World’s Largest Database Rating Men)
Founder of C-301 Non-Profit Foundation for Abused Women, Children and Animals
Founder of the #1 Most Popular Abused Women’s Forum
Best-selling Author of “Sex, Lies and the Internet,” An Online Dating Survial Guide
Women’s Speaker

Credentials:
Stephany Alexander is the founder and CEO of WomanSavers.com, one of the most popular womens sites on the net (top 5%) receiving millions of hits per month. WomanSavers.com is a revolutionary woman-to-woman social networking system with thousands of men’s names and descriptions entered globally to promote safer dating worldwide. It’s FREE to search and free to post!

Stephany has shown celebrities like Kim Kardashian, Comedian Elayne Boosler and First Lady Maria Shriver how to use the internet to screen people to protect themselves, their families and what they value. She is considered one of the world’s foremost authorities on relationships and infidelity. Stephany has over 10 years of experience in matters of the heart and how to improve your odds of finding a great relationship.  She has counseled hundreds of thousands of men and women worldwide and attended and exhibited at countless dating and relationship conferences around the world.

Stephany is the “exclusive” dating expert for Idea Marketers, the “exclusive” relationship expert for SelfGrowth.com and a featured speaker for “Women for Hire.” She speaks fluent German. In 2008, Stephany was awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award for Women’s Abuse Prevention , awarded “Woman of the Month” by the Femme Network and spotlighted by Women’s Business Magazine as a woman to watch in the future. She is a co-founder of SWWAN, the (Single Working Women’s Affiliate)

Founder: #1 highest trafficked abused women’s forum
Author: “Sex, Lies & the Internet,” A Survival Guide to Online Dating”
Author: 100+ Relationships & Infidelity Articles
Author: 22 Dating & Relationship Quizzes
Internet Polling Expert surveying 600,000+ women on relationships
Creator: 12 relationship comedy cartoon e-cards, plus 1 claymation
Creator: 6 online relationship games, 1 arcade quality
Traveled to 39+ countries interviewing people on relationships
Featured speaker for “Women for Hire
“Exclusive” dating expert for Idea Marketers
Featured speaker for Speaker Services
Speaker at i-Date, the world’s largest social networking conference
Awarded American Institute Lifetime Achievement Award for “Women’s Abuse Prevention”
Awarded “Woman of the Month” by the Femme Network
WomanSavers nominated as finalist for prestigious internet Pixel Award (Academy Awards of the Internet)

Stephany is frequently called on by the media as one of the nation’s leading authority on relationships and infidelity. She has been featured on: the Mike & Juliet Show (repeat dating expert), E! Entertainment, CBS Early Show, FOX Nationwide News, Fox Business, FOX Sports, Sirius Satellite, Playboy Radio, KROQ, KIIS-FM, Esquire Magazine, USA Today, Wall Street Journal, NY Times, Chicago Tribune, Women’s Business Magazine, Associated Press, National Enquirer & countless radio and internet shows.

 

Infidelity Expert, Stephany Alexander, Gives Advice on Whether or Not to Spy on Your Partner

As an infidelity expert who has given infidelity advice to thousands of people since early 2000, spying on your partner can be tricky and risky business.  The question is whether spying on your partner is moral.  The answer is it depends on the situation.  Some people think that spying is always morally wrong no matter what the circumstances.  Others believe that knowing the truth is the most important thing.

Most people seem to agree that spying on your partner without their knowledge without having just cause is wrong.  However, is it always wrong to spy if your partner has given you indication of infidelity?  Most people suggest open communication if they suspect infidelity but many times the cheating partner will lie about being unfaithful and cover their tracks better.  Unless you have concrete, factual proof of the infidelity, cheaters often deny any wrongdoings.

If your partner is being unfaithful, it is likely the relationship will eventually end whether you spy or not.  However, if you spy and confirm that he or she is cheating, then you have the option of either trying to save the relationship or leaving.  By not investigating at all, you may be living a lie.  The ultimate mistake is to do nothing and bury your head in the sand.  Whether it is communication, counseling or spying, the goal is to get the truth out in the open.

There are currently many technological surveillance devices on the market to catch a cheater – everything from a computer keystroke logger that tracks every keystroke to a voice activated digital recording device.  There are now even GPS tracking devices no larger than a pack of gum that trace everywhere a car goes.  For your own safety, please make sure that you check your local laws before spying on your partner.  The ultimate decision on what to do if you suspect infidelity is up to you. However, as the old saying goes, “the truth shall set you free.”

 

Why Guys Cheat: Why Bad Guys Cheat and Good Guys Don’t April 21, 2009

Why Guys Cheat

Why Guys Cheat

One of the most painful experiences one undergoes in life is discovering your boyfriend or husband is a cheating guy. It becomes even more painful if you strongly care about, or deeply love, him. Why guys cheat is a question that demands a deep and introspective research and before we start we have to clarify what we really mean by cheating. Cheating to some people may be simple glances at a good looking woman as she walks down the street or thinking about that sexy looking number that is displayed on the calendar or thinking ‘if only I am single’.

According to Womansavers.com, 22% of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives, 70% of married women did not know of their spouses’ extramarital activity, while another 3% of married women reported having (more…)

 

Unfaithful Men: Why Unfaithful Men Fall for the Fantasy of Infidelity

Unfaithful Men Infidelity

Unfaithful Men Infidelity

Some men are unfaithful because they crave intimacy and cannot find it. Others simply lack self-control, ethics and good sense. Ironically, many men tend to use sex as a getaway route from their problems. Unless men can learn to communicate their needs verbally, instead of sexually, the charge of infidelity, which causes about 20 percent of marriage breakdowns, seems likely to continue according to recent findings from the website morphogenesis.

Selfishness is also another very big indicator of the level of devotion of a man. A selfish person does not care about the feeling of others and that behavior is displayed in an unfaithful situation.  Selfish behavior stems back from early adolescent days, when selfishness is thought be developed.

Unfaithful men cover all demographics, nationalities and incomes.  We can take the examples of some celebrity males who have been unfaithful to their partners such as Hugh Grant who cheated on Elizabeth Hurley, Eric Benet who cheated multiple times with multiple partners on Halle Berry and Tommy Lee who was notorious for cheating on Heather Locklear. (more…)

 

Surviving Infidelity: Advice on How to Survive Infidelity

Surviving Infidelity

Surviving Infidelity

Life certainly has its challenges, but little compares to the enormous task of healing from infidelity. Many marriage therapists have well confirmed that the clients who visit them have confessed that the discovery of an affair was the lowest, darkest moment of their entire lives. And because affairs shatter the general trust, many people seriously contemplate ending their marriages.  However, it is important to know that, no matter bleak things might seem, it is possible to revitalize a marriage wounded by infidelity. It is not so easy: there are no quick fix, one-size-fits-all solutions. But years of experience has taught that there are definite patterns to what people in loving relationships do to bring their marriages back from the brink of disaster.

Surviving infidelity involves teamwork; both spouses should be fully committed to the hard work of getting their marriages back on track. The unfaithful partner must be willing to end the affair and do (more…)

 

Surviving Adultery: How to Survive and Overcome Adultery

Surviving Adultery

Surviving Adultery

Adultery is devastating to any marriage, regardless of the circumstances under which adultery might have occurred. Unfortunately, adultery is all too common is the cause of pain and anguish to many couples.

Though there is no excuse for adultery and the offended spouse is not to blame emotional distraction or unmet needs are major contributors to the temptation of having an affair

Upon reflection, if you discover that you have contributed to the problem, repent and keep that in mind as you consider your response to the situation and dealing with adultery is very complex, and it involves a lot of issues that you must address before determining your actions.

According to an adultery poll of over 500 women conducted by WomanSavers.com, over 64% of women would not forgive their partner if he had a sexual affair.  (more…)

 

Cheating and Infidelity Statistics: Are Men Cheating More Than Women?

Cheating Infidelity Statistics

Cheating Infidelity Statistics

Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship. Do these infidelity statistics seem a bit startling? What these findings suggest is that approximately one half of all married men and women do seek intimacy outside of their committed relationships. But what does this really mean and why are the number of men and women having extramarital affairs so high?

This may come as a complete surprise, but most extramarital affairs are not about sex. What then, is the main factor that causes infidelity? One should pay attention to the reason most people find intimacy with someone outside of their marriage is because of their emotional needs are not being met. Yes, it is true in most cases of infidelity and about wanting to feel emotionally connected to someone. (more…)

 

 
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